a drgn azure, couchant

Lately I've been trying to describe my gender and how it relates to my draconity, partly using a really cool resource that one person came up with for framing gender in non-binary terms: this thread/zine by frogwatching.

I got as far as filling out one blank diagram, but the more I tried to clarify, the more I felt like I was just tying myself in knots, trying to explain something that was just out of reach of the structure I'd been given.

Then, I had an epiphany. Well, several, but here's one.

( CW: gender and species dysphoria, sexualisation of AFAB kids, gamer bro creepiness )